29 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Tuned Up

By Sandra Siemens L.I.S.W.

Why do some relationships last forever and others fall apart? Here are some ways you can make your partner feel appreciated again and prevent your relationship from becoming a casualty.

  1.  Treat your partner as you would your boss, best friend, or best customer.

  2.  Think about what your partner wants and give it to him or her.

  3.  Think of ways you can do the unexpected and be thoughtful. Remember how you acted when you wanted to win your partner over.

  4.  Pay attention to your appearance. Dress nicely; get into shape.

  5.  Express your thoughts carefully. Being married doesn’t give anyone permission to let it all hang out.

  6.  Spend regular time together alone.

  7.  Look for ways to compliment your partner.

  8.  Hug when you say hello and goodbye. It feels good and it makes people feel loved.

  9.  Learn and practice communication skills. Relating successfully to another person requires a set of skills that can be learned.

10.  Be polite. Just because you are married doesn’t mean you can forget your manners.

11.  When you want something, say please.

12.  When your partner does something for you, say thank you.

13.  When your partner comes home after a day at work, greet her at the door and say hello. Ask how her day went.

14.  When your partner leaves for work in the morning, say goodbye and “I love you” or “Have a good day.”

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